Worried
No More: Help and Hope for Anxious Children by Aureen Pinto Wagner,
Ph.D., is a welcome addition to the list of books produced for concerned
parents, school personnel and clinicians unfamiliar with Cognitive
Behavior Therapy (CBT). It is a "must read" for these targeted
audiences because the book is accurate, clear and easily
understood. It provides the practical answers and strategies that
parents/teachers/counselors are looking for.
Worried No More provides general
information to bring the targeted audience up to speed on different
anxiety problems. In it, Dr. Pinto Wagner discusses in general
terms CBT and medications. These general chapters are easily
understood, to-the-point and jargon free. She provides guidance on
how to discriminate between normal anxiety from problem anxiety.
She discusses warning symptoms and possible differences in presentation
due to developmental age.
In my opinion, the most elegant
chapter of the book is the one devoted to discussing the causes of
anxiety disorders in children. Dr. Pinto Wagner explains the maintenance
factors in incredible clear and understandable language. She
handles particularly well the delicate issue of parental reactions and
responses that can accidentally and inadvertently strengthen an anxiety
problem. Another section the author covers with expert ease is her
explanation of habituation and how and why Exposure and Response
Prevention (ERP) works. Because having this understanding is the
first step towards success, these explanations alone make the book worth
buying. Additionally, the book has many handy tables that simplify
concepts for the reader. One that stands out is a nifty little
table that highlights the differences between normal anxiety and problem
anxiety.
Other highlights of the book are
the sections that focus specifically on what parents and school
personnel can do to help alleviate a child's anxiety. The school chapter
is particularly useful. In it, Dr. Wagner urges the school to
respect and honor the knowledge and expertise of the parents. She
also urges parents to understand the limited resources of schools and to
assume that most school personnel want to be helpful. By focusing
on the unique responsibilities of all the parties involved, the author
shows how parents and teachers can build a team that truly works
together for the best interest of the child they are trying help.
It has been my experience that school personnel and parents often
initially look at each other as adversaries. Dr. Pinto Wagner
provides useful guidance to help foster teamwork and specific actions
the team can take to help the child.
There is also a chapter devoted
to specific interventions that might be useful for a variety of anxiety
disorders in children. The chapter presents many useful ideas. I
hope that parents do not assume that armed with this book they can
replace a clinician. Possibly to guard against this assumption,
Dr. Wagner provides a list of questions to help parents find a good
clinician.
I was very impressed with the
"Worry Hill Memory Card" that Dr. Pinto Wagner devised and
included in the book. Young children will be able to use this
mnemonic device to keep in mind that, although the early part of an
exposure exercise is hard work and involves feeling fear, when they get
used to doing it, it will be as easy as coasting down a hill on a
bike. This "Card" is a gem and the metaphor is a useful
analogy for any parent or therapist.
Overall, I give this book a
hearty thumbs up!!